In the midst of this pandemic, everything has changed. In the past, if you wanted to get to know people, you could do it at school, work, or in a coffee shop, but since this pandemic we can't get together or just have face-to-face interaction, so how can we add friends? Fortunately there is social media so we can still add acquaintances through social media. On social media, we can meet many people in a relatively fast time. This time, there are some tips to make your acquaintance process on social media fun!
1. Having a goal at the beginning of the acquaintance, it's okay to add friends or find a crush, it's okay too
Goals may change from what initially we just wanted to find people to talk to but turned into friends for life, it doesn't matter what is clear we must have an initial goal after getting acquainted with what we want to be because if later over time our goals change, let time change. answer. Looking for a mate… well, whatever our goal is, we must have a goal. Now this goal will affect our relationship in the future, because having a goal will relate to what topics we will discuss in the future, how we treat him or how we behave with him, all of which stem from our initial goal to get to know him.
2. Give an interesting first impression so that he becomes interested
The first thing to remember at the beginning of an introduction is to make a good impression when you first meet. First impressions are very important, therefore we must make a good first impression even though we are online. If on social media we can see directly or in the form of video conferences such as Zoom, Google Meet, or Microsoft Teams, we can give a smile at the beginning and then say hello and introduce ourselves. When we meet through a voice like Discord we can say hello or hi, good morning or according to time.
3. Choose a fun topic so you don't get bored easily when you first meet on social media
This topic is very important for initial acquaintance. What's an interesting discussion? Your hobbies, games that just came out, or Korean movies that are currently hits. Whatever your discussion is, try to find an interesting topic that suits you, you know where and what your goals are. Find a topic of conversation until he can say "wow, I don't feel like talking to you, it's really fun."
4. Let's be interactive and proactive, don't be afraid to start first
When we meet on social media, we must be interactive. Interactive way we have tek tok with the interlocutor, ask for news, circumstances, hobbies, don't just talk about yourself, don't just listen to the other person's story. Don't just reply to what people say with hmm, oh, yeah. Try to find the next topic of discussion that other people understand as much as possible.
5. Respect her privacy. Don't be too stupid but still show concern
It's important to respect privacy! Especially at the beginning of the meeting as much as possible to know what things are allowed to be known and what things should not be asked. Examples of things that are private are finances, religion, romance or love, age, home address, family, education, and race or ethnicity. Avoid these things, especially at the beginning of the introduction.
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