Love and affection is indeed an important thing in starting a marriage. But apart from that, commitment and willingness to compromise and being able to understand your partner is also an absolute requirement for a lasting marriage. It's useless if you love each other, but every day there is just a fuss because of trivial things. So you're not happy right?
the importance of understanding the 5 styles of love of each different partner, so that there are no misunderstandings in communication. Yes, how do you get along? Don't be surprised if later you realize that you've misread your partner's 'language', OK!
1. The first love language is the 'Word of Affirmation' or the love language expressed through affirmative and affectionate words
This type of couple will not really ignore the love codes that are conveyed through actions, although this is important too, yes. The reason is, they will feel more truly loved if they are showered with romantic and loving words every day. Saying "I love you" or "Thank you for being the perfect partner for me, I love you" will make you more satisfied and happy.
2. Next, a partner with the love language 'Quality Time' will appreciate it more when you specifically and intentionally provide full time for him, even for a moment every day
This type of partner needs you to give special time, spend time with him without being distracted from other things. This partner will be more flattered if you are willing to prioritize him above your busy schedule and tell him that your time with him is the best. Uwww, cute~
3. Couples with the love language 'Receiving Gifts' will be happier when given surprises in the form of gifts. Whether expensive or cheap, the important thing is that he feels his presence is appreciated through the special gift you give
Couples with this type love it when their partner showers them with attention in the form of gifts. As simple as giving her flowers, love cards, vouchers or other favorite items will make her feel appreciated and loved. It's not just a matter of being given a luxurious gift, as simple as a special love letter or a key chain engraved with his name can make him really happy.
4. Well, if your partner is the type who likes to be pampered and served, it means that his love language is 'Acts of Service' aka likes to be given concrete actions to love him
For couples with this type of love language, love is literally a verb. Yes, couples with this type like to be given attention with special forms of service such as always opening the door for him, massaging his back or legs, or carrying his belongings. This type is less concerned with intimate words and more focused on seeing your actions spoil him.
5. Finally, the love language 'Physical Touch' can be a love language that many people like to forget sometimes even though this is important for this type of couple
Likes to be kissed, hugged, held hands and stroked on the head are characteristics of couples with the love language 'Physical Touch'. Couples with this type don't really care about gifts or words, but will be more flattered when they are showered with physical affection. Check it out, maybe your partner is easily grumpy because he is rarely caressed by you? Hehe. Unfortunately, understanding the 5 love languages is not enough for you to maintain and maintain a relationship. In a romantic relationship, you and your partner can feel each other on different frequencies. You may want a relationship to flow like water and still be reluctant to talk about marriage. Conversely, your partner may already want to continue the relationship to the aisle. The difference arises because you have different life experiences, personalities, relationships with parents, and socio-cultural relationships.
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